Rachel and I took it easy following our raucous party the night before. I took her to see Kinsey. This was my third viewing, but a necessary corrective in her education. Her textbooks describe Kinsey as an evil pedophile.
Afterwards, we walked to get a bite, having a conversation about the exhilaration of honesty. Okay, so I brought up the subject, and its importance to Kinsey’s character in the film. But the longing for honesty is a big issue in Rachel’s life as well—there are too few people she can open up to.
“So anyway,” she says, “I lost my virginity last month.”
She told me all about it, in great detail. I won’t blog this, but suffice to say, she created the opportunity and initiated it with her long time boyfriend. I thanked her for sharing. I didn’t pry, but I listened and gave responsible advice. And I listened.
The life of a parent, and pervert, in New York City.
When told by my wife that our fifteen-year relationship was over, I found that everything in my life was upended. I took solace when friends and family pointed out I was no longer responsible for her personal happiness, just my own—and that of my four children.
I went into marriage as a bisexual kid, suspicious of monogamy. I was a good husband, and played by the rules. Now I'm single again, and wondering if I didn't have it right back then.
This blog picks up my new life in progress—the life of a parent, and pervert, in New York City.
Photograph by Adrian Buckmaster Photography. New York, NY. July 5, 2015.
(c) 2004-2019. This work is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial-NoDerivs 2.5 License.
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I went into marriage as a bisexual kid, suspicious of monogamy. I was a good husband, and played by the rules. Now I'm single again, and wondering if I didn't have it right back then.
This blog picks up my new life in progress—the life of a parent, and pervert, in New York City.
Photograph by Adrian Buckmaster Photography. New York, NY. July 5, 2015.
(c) 2004-2019. This work is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial-NoDerivs 2.5 License.
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2 comments:
A good listener is what every daughter wants in a Dad. I hope Rachel knows how lucky she is. Cheers!
Thanks May--from one perv parent to another.
I think Rachel and I are both very lucky to have one another.
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