It’s Monday afternoon, after Madeline and I spent our first weekend together. She is napping in my bed as I do some work. When she wakes, we are going for a walk in the park. It is a sunny day.
We part company tonight.
I won’t be able to post about the weekend immediately, so I will refer you to her blog, gentle reader, as she will likely get stories posted before I do.
I commend myself for making it through the weekend without proposing marriage. At least, not often.
On the subject of marriage, I just got off the telephone with my lawyer. The t’s are crossed and the i’s are dotted. Fingers crossed, folks.
My divorce is all but complete.
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The life of a parent, and pervert, in New York City.
When told by my wife that our fifteen-year relationship was over, I found that everything in my life was upended. I took solace when friends and family pointed out I was no longer responsible for her personal happiness, just my own—and that of my four children.
I went into marriage as a bisexual kid, suspicious of monogamy. I was a good husband, and played by the rules. Now I'm single again, and wondering if I didn't have it right back then.
This blog picks up my new life in progress—the life of a parent, and pervert, in New York City.
Photograph by Adrian Buckmaster Photography. New York, NY. July 5, 2015.
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I went into marriage as a bisexual kid, suspicious of monogamy. I was a good husband, and played by the rules. Now I'm single again, and wondering if I didn't have it right back then.
This blog picks up my new life in progress—the life of a parent, and pervert, in New York City.
Photograph by Adrian Buckmaster Photography. New York, NY. July 5, 2015.
(c) 2004-2019. This work is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial-NoDerivs 2.5 License.
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4 comments:
I was reading Madeline's post with the conversation between you to just prior to her visiting, and wow...you two seem great together! I am so glad that everything is going so well for you - that's so great to hear, especially after something nasty like a divorce!
Congrats on the almost complete divorce. I know they are very hard on everyone.
Thanks for the kind words. And welcome to the blog, Anonymous Midwest Girl. I'll have some new posts up soon.
Good for you, jefferson! you guys seem like a good fit.
--Jennifer
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