One Life, Take Two: Keep It A Secret

When told by my wife that our fifteen-year relationship was over, I found that everything in my life was upended. I took solace when friends and family pointed out I was no longer responsible for her personal happiness, just my own—and that of my four children.

I went into marriage as a bisexual kid, suspicious of monogamy. I was a good husband, and played by the rules. Now I'm single again, and wondering if I didn't have it right back then.

This blog picks up my new life in progress—the life of a parent, and pervert, in New York City.

Photograph by Adrian Buckmaster Photography. New York, NY. July 5, 2015.

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Saturday, February 09, 2008

Keep It A Secret

While us dodgers live in two-thousand-three-land on Blogspot, the kids are making it happen on YouTube. Give a shout to the Bisexual Kid, out since age twelve and putting up advice for anyone who needs it.

And yet, some things don't change. Visit me in nineteen-eighty, and I'd tell you the same. One, tell your parents and come out. Two, on the funner side, don't tell your parents so you don't freak them out and you can still have sex in the basement.

1 comment:

Wendy Blackheart said...: Ah, good advice. I remember hearing that from Kentucky (a/k/a, GayCris) back in the first round of college.
When asked by someone not in the know why he didn't come out to his parents, he said
"Are you fucking kidding me?! My family is from Kentucky. They'd beat the holy hell out of me before throwing me out. Anyway, while they think I'm straight, I can have my boyfriends sleep over, and not have to worry about missing curfew."; 2/09/2008 8:45 AM

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Saturday, February 09, 2008

Keep It A Secret

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