tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9353488.post116619387466508831..comments2023-10-10T12:17:54.548-04:00Comments on One Life, Take Two: Fleshbot and Positively TherapeuticJeffersonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01133275691982057440noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9353488.post-1166590128788220972006-12-19T23:48:00.000-05:002006-12-19T23:48:00.000-05:00i know the anger and frustration you deal with. i...i know the anger and frustration you deal with. i know it all too well, baby.<BR/><BR/>jefferson, i have found it helps to repeat a little phrase when MY ex rears her ugly head. perhaps i can pass along this nugget, and it will help you, too. it's amazing how inspiring some words can be. they really have the power to heal, to get us through all kinds of things.<BR/><BR/>"i am going to go do a blogspothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05368276144522100282noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9353488.post-1166564372780962992006-12-19T16:39:00.000-05:002006-12-19T16:39:00.000-05:00If she had been anyone else, I might’ve called her...<I>If she had been anyone else, I might’ve called her to the alley for a fight. </I><BR/><BR/>So maybe that is what you should have done. Not scratch her eyes out, but at least let her know that she was out of line. <BR/><BR/>It's like raising kids. If you don't tell her, she won't learn. Sure, if at her age she still doesn't know, apparently she's a sociopath, but I still think you should Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9353488.post-1166395370385799372006-12-17T17:42:00.000-05:002006-12-17T17:42:00.000-05:00I don't know your nameSusan. Sorry about that.But ...<I>I don't know your name</I><BR/><BR/>Susan. Sorry about that.<BR/><BR/><I>But you bring the Bing, so I like the very thought of you.</I><BR/><BR/>You always accentuate the positive! I think he died not too long after this one, and the voice was still there. ["I do indeed." Swoon.]<BR/><BR/>http://youtube.com/watch?v=2PrZ8vVZ2noAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9353488.post-1166355770201734742006-12-17T06:42:00.000-05:002006-12-17T06:42:00.000-05:00I was so saddened to read this, reminds me of when...I was so saddened to read this, reminds me of when, at 8 my own father refused to continue seeing me because I didn't want to see his new family..... I can only be glad that Lillie has at least one parent who sees her potential. Because in the longrun, it's that faith that will help her to be the best person she can be!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9353488.post-1166335393845306322006-12-17T01:03:00.000-05:002006-12-17T01:03:00.000-05:00I don't know your name, Anonymous. But you bring t...I don't know your name, Anonymous. But you bring the Bing, so I like the very thought of you.Jeffersonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01133275691982057440noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9353488.post-1166334097793765982006-12-17T00:41:00.000-05:002006-12-17T00:41:00.000-05:00*Tries to say something appropriate and helpful* M...*Tries to say something appropriate and helpful* Mentally smacks Lucy *Goes back to making the WTF face* Just... Damn.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9353488.post-1166331584736837612006-12-16T23:59:00.000-05:002006-12-16T23:59:00.000-05:00These days, you read that his late son's allegatio...<I>These days, you read that his late son's allegations are not entirely justified and largely a product of their times</I><BR/><BR/>Could very well be, although two other sons did commit suicide. He probably was not the best of fathers, but... that <I>voice</I>! Time to go watch <I>White Christmas</I> I think.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9353488.post-1166315524472055062006-12-16T19:32:00.000-05:002006-12-16T19:32:00.000-05:00Lucy may be Momzilla, but Lillie is Kidzilla. I'm ...Lucy may be Momzilla, but Lillie is Kidzilla. I'm gonna make a Tshirt for her that says that.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9353488.post-1166307406812172812006-12-16T17:16:00.000-05:002006-12-16T17:16:00.000-05:00I read this earlier today and it stayed with me an...I read this earlier today and it stayed with me and bothered me. I am so sorry that Lucy is so cruel to Lillie. I'm crying.Lolitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00198320778695126210noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9353488.post-1166306464197703262006-12-16T17:01:00.000-05:002006-12-16T17:01:00.000-05:00I'm sorry for both you and Lillie. And the boys--...I'm sorry for both you and Lillie. And the boys--it's not like they won't/don't notice this behavior. I'm glad Lillie know that you're on her side and that you'll be her advocate when her mother pulls this shit. (Although I too am looking forward to the day Bridget is let loose...)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9353488.post-1166295186293763252006-12-16T13:59:00.000-05:002006-12-16T13:59:00.000-05:00Sounds like the bastard that is my father who said...Sounds like the bastard that is my father who said I couldn't get in to Brown when I was <I>eight</I>.<BR/><BR/>I'm sorry she's so rotten, baby. Lillie is just cute as a button, and from the stories you tell, seems as smart as a whip.<BR/><BR/>And Emma and I totally agree you're going to have to beat the boys away with a stick when she's older.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9353488.post-1166289518274183412006-12-16T12:18:00.000-05:002006-12-16T12:18:00.000-05:00You told me about this, and I am seething after re...You told me about this, and I am <I>seething</I> after reading this. They are great kids who have great parent(s). Lillie is going to grow up and do great things, in spite of her mother.<BR/><BR/>I had huge battles with my mother. I remember reading R.D. Laing's <I>'The Politics of the Family'</I> and finding it really helpful to my situation at that time.Vivianehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15815279146655404243noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9353488.post-1166284841922648902006-12-16T11:00:00.000-05:002006-12-16T11:00:00.000-05:00This Be The VerseThey fuck you up, your mum and da...This Be The Verse<BR/><BR/><I>They fuck you up, your mum and dad.<BR/> They may not mean to, but they do.<BR/>They fill you with the faults they had<BR/> And add some extra, just for you.<BR/><BR/>But they were fucked up in their turn<BR/> By fools in old-style hats and coats,<BR/>Who half the time were soppy-stern<BR/> And half at one another's throats.<BR/><BR/>Man hands on misery to Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9353488.post-1166283787121425292006-12-16T10:43:00.000-05:002006-12-16T10:43:00.000-05:00Is Miss Lucy jealous of her own daughter? Envious ...Is Miss Lucy jealous of her own daughter? <BR/><BR/>Envious that Miss Lillie has her whole life before her to conquer the world, and is therefore competing with her for your attention and, in turn, trying to bring her down (through character assasination) to boost her own sorry ass?<BR/><BR/>Miss Lucy sounds pathetic and insecure to be competing with her seven year old daughter.Firestarterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13634090006739693602noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9353488.post-1166249742375282392006-12-16T01:15:00.000-05:002006-12-16T01:15:00.000-05:00Beloved, you know I've penciled in the date. ;) H...Beloved, you know I've penciled in the date. ;) <BR/><BR/>Here's a frightening thought: We'll have lived through *each* of the boys turning 18 by then. <BR/><BR/>But oooh, I can't wait. It'll be like a super duper bday/xmas present all in one!<BR/><BR/>I'll just start making a list of what I'll say, starting with, "First off, you were a lousy wife and partner...." and go from there. <BR/><BR/>Bridgethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00374060770598095706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9353488.post-1166249164232734362006-12-16T01:06:00.000-05:002006-12-16T01:06:00.000-05:00I should also explain the phrase "that was a great...I should also explain the phrase "that was a great game of golf, fellas." <BR/><BR/>These were Bing's last words, spoken as he walked off a golf course near Madrid. He had shot an 85. <BR/><BR/>How cool to be so cool you even die cool.Jeffersonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01133275691982057440noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9353488.post-1166248254303672812006-12-16T00:50:00.000-05:002006-12-16T00:50:00.000-05:00I added Bing for his art, not for his parenting, b...I added Bing for his art, not for his parenting, but I had considered that irony, Anonymous. <BR/><BR/>These days, you read that his late son's allegations are not entirely justified and largely a product of their times, as a troubled alcoholic cashed in on the flurry around "Mommie Dearest." <BR/><BR/>I'd certainly prefer my dad to Bing, but Gary Crosby's book is a poor legacy for the crooner. <Jeffersonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01133275691982057440noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9353488.post-1166245582807403092006-12-16T00:06:00.000-05:002006-12-16T00:06:00.000-05:00Considering Bing's (lack of) parenting skills, inc...Considering Bing's (lack of) parenting skills, including that clip with this post is sort of ironic (although I enjoyed it).<BR/><BR/>Maybe you could gain some solace by thinking about waaaay into the future, when anonymity is no longer an absolute necessity-- when you can give Lucy the link to Google's cache for this blog.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9353488.post-1166243479376700152006-12-15T23:31:00.000-05:002006-12-15T23:31:00.000-05:00She wants to be Bitch Extraordinaire? Fine. The gi...She wants to be Bitch Extraordinaire? Fine. <BR/><BR/>The girls are *mine.* Well, as much as you let me.... ;) <BR/><BR/>I swear. She doesn't even *know* Lillie. I bet she doesn't even know the mexican hat dance. <BR/><BR/>Please. Just once. Let her say something in front of *me* about my favorite. <BR/><BR/>Beat her. With a STICK! A STICK, I tell you!!!<BR/><BR/>I mean, we all know I'm in love Bridgethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00374060770598095706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9353488.post-1166241386762872892006-12-15T22:56:00.000-05:002006-12-15T22:56:00.000-05:00Your ex-wife should be glad that your blog is writ...Your ex-wife should be glad that your blog is written anonymously. Let's just say that some CSI team somewhere would be all up in my bidness when the body turned up if she were not granted the blanket of anonymity. She can be as bitchy as she wants about me or any other grown person to my face, but I will beat a bitch down if she talks shit about her own kids.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9353488.post-1166234467911978392006-12-15T21:01:00.000-05:002006-12-15T21:01:00.000-05:00Thank goodness for fathers like you, sweetie.Thank goodness for fathers like you, sweetie.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9353488.post-1166230258170562852006-12-15T19:50:00.000-05:002006-12-15T19:50:00.000-05:00How could a mother say that about such an adorable...How could a mother say that about such an adorable, lovely child?? Horrid.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9353488.post-1166228026679683092006-12-15T19:13:00.000-05:002006-12-15T19:13:00.000-05:00Reading about her cruelty knocked the wind out of ...Reading about her cruelty knocked the wind out of me. It is, however, comforting to know that your kids have such a powerful ally on their side and that you will never give up on them, even though their mother seems to give up on anything she doesn't deem up to her "standards". Pathetic and absolutely contemptible.<BR/><BR/>On a positive note, "Elephant" was h-o-t hot. Thanks for that.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com